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Tips for getting her number - The Gambler

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Going for a number is a high-pressure moment for most guys, they don’t know when to do it and they don’t know whether the girl will accept or reject them. Even after getting a number, it can be difficult to convert that into a date or another meeting. Here’s what to do! - The Gambler

Conversation leading to a number close:

Most guys make the mistake of making small talk for a period of time and then just coming out and asking for a number - this is wrong. A connection can be (but usually isn’t) built with small talk but it takes a lot longer. Instead the conversation needs to be directed towards the goal at all times. A conversation which is directed at getting a number needs to be based around connections and common interests.

Example questions which establish a connection, or common interest:

• What does she do when she isn’t working? How does she spend her time?
• What food does she like? What places does she like to go to in the evening?
• Is she a party girl?
•Does she like the arts?
•What is something she would like to do but hasn’t yet (eg salsa class)?

These are basic common interest questions that lead to a possible connection...think of your own, there are hundreds.

How to minimise flakeage:

•Enter your number in her phone too.
•Have a connection or something you can do together as described above.
•And most importantly: arrange a date there and then. If you have already arranged a date, she can be thinking about it, and when you call she is expecting it.

Use these tips and all your good interactions should end in solid number closes...

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