10 top pulling tips from The Gambler
Party season is here, but are you feeling intimidated by the hottie standing by herself at the bar? Being eaten up by anxiety and wondering whether you'll ever conquer your fear of approaching the fairer sex? Well we've got news for you sucker: today's the day you pull yourself together - with the help of real-life 'hitch', The Gambler.
1. Make a good first impression
Most guys stand around the bar looking bored and blatantly checking out the women.
You should look like you are having fun, start conversations with people around the venue. That way when you start talking to the girl she’ll be more open to talking to you.
2. Don't delay
Other guys will be checking out the women and stalking out the venue for ages before they pluck up the courage to approach.
You need to obey the 3-second rule. You have 3 seconds from the time you spot a girl you want to talk to before you go in there. It seems more spontaneous and makes you seem more friendly and confident.
3. Respect her personal space until she is comfortable
I always see guys get right in a woman’s face when they approach to chat her up. This immediately puts pressure on her and is why you often see guys get bad reactions.
Approach more casually, from the side, and she’ll be much more comfortable talking to you.
4. Keep the spotlight on you until she is comfortable
Asking question after question is not a great tactic, but that is exactly what men do in a pickup situation.
Do most of the talking until they are comfortable with you. If they give you some information about themselves, talk about that and connect on it before asking another question.
5. Dress for Success
Don't dress generically. What does that mean? If a girl couldn’t compliment an article of your clothing even if she wanted to, it means you are generic.
Try to look like "someone who gets laid"! Look around, find people that look like this, and get some ideas.
6. Win the friends over
How often have I seen guys go straight up to the hot girl in a group and ignore all the others. It rarely works. Don't ignore the friends, at least pay them some attention so they don't drag your girl away.
