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Single on Valentine's Day? At least you avoid the expensive dates, the presents, and the high-expectations. There will be plenty of disappointed single girls, now is a great time to find your dream girl. Here is how you can get started today.

Valentine's Day can be great if you're single

Think of a woman like a talent scout, why should she sign you up?

1. Become a Better Man

Most guys think making more money is the answer to their love life problem. Wrong! A woman will be more interested in a man that is well-travelled, well-read, can dance, cook, paint, play music, and has interesting hobbies. The guy that works all the hours god sends will never be as attractive. At a minimum, do a salsa class! Think of a woman like a talent scout, why should she sign you up? Another facet of this is that the women that are around you will start seeing how cool you are becoming and start to want you. You are not showing off to them, you are just doing cool stuff.

2. Don’t Catch One-itis

If you focus all your attention and energy on one girl, the surprising thing is that you are actually reducing your chances. Usually if you work hard on something it pays off, not in the case of women. When they think that you are there whenever they want you, it is not a challenge and is less attractive. Keep your options open, do other things, and don’t be needy. If you really want a girl, things like saying “lets just be friends” will make them go crazy and start to work for you.

3. Approach, Approach, Approach

Can you approach 10 girls or groups of girls when you go out for the night? Can you start as soon as you get to the venue before you even get a drink? Approaching every girl you are interested in without hesitation is a key skill of men who are successful. Set yourself this mission in the night, and in the day-time have the rule that you will start a conversation with every woman you find attractive. It doesn’t matter what you say, what matters is that you have a go.

Women have a group psychology, as soon as one girl in a group wants you, they all do!

4. Be One-Step ahead

If you go on a date, and you sense that she isn’t in to you too much or that things aren’t going to work out, you be the first to deliver the “let’s just be friends” line. Get this girl into your social circle. Most attractive girls have attractive friends. Her friends will be into you because you have social proof from being friends with their friends. The original girl will also find you more attractive. Women have a group psychology, as soon as one girl in a group wants you, they all do!

5. Try Every Avenue

Have you been speed dating? Have you tried online dating? Speed dating is great practice for getting comfortable with the first few minutes of an interaction, the women MUST talk to you, and they are single and looking. Online dating is something that works for some guys too, it’s worth a try if you haven’t already.

6. Put yourself in the Right Situations

You are not going to meet any women sitting in your house. You can commit to going out and approaching women in the night. You can also join a gym, do an evening class (languages, cooking, yoga, salsa, psychology), hang out in coffee shops. In these environments, you get to know the people over time and it makes it easier for you to make a move. If you like the activity, even better, you can meet like-minded people.

This advice will work for you, just make sure you put it into action.



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